We’ll call her Stubby!

Chasing bubbles
Some may ask why there are always more photos of my younger daughter in my gallery. Some even hint that maybe I LOVE one more than the other, or that I play favoritism.

I don’t play favoritism. I charge for it. I take cash only, as you just can’t trust the credit of kids these days. My children will always know that the only true way to be a favorite in my heart is to pay me.

The real reason there are more photos of my wee one than my older one? Because the little one moves slower than the older one. Yep. That’s it. But why, besides shorter legs, does she move so slowly? Perhaps because she was held too much as a baby. Maybe her mother neglected her development by carrying her around in a sling 24 hours a day. It’s that whole attachment parenting thing, isn’t it? Yeah, you’ve been waiting with your Itoldyousos, haven’t you?

Well, we took L to the physical therapist to see if we could figure out why this child doesn’t like running much, and why she falls on her face whenever she tries. Lots of people tried to tell me that it’s just a lack of grace. I mean, genetically, she didn’t ever stand much of a chance, did she? Her father can fall over just by standing still.

We found out that our younger child has one leg that is 1/8 inch shorter than the other leg. And so, running puts her off balance, and she goes sprawling onto her face. It’s just not something I ever even considered. Yet, there it is. The physical therapist showed me the difference in length, and I felt like a complete fool. Of course. So that’s why she has that weird, jaunty little jog! Poor kid is off-kilter!

Yes, there is something we can do about it. She will be getting *inserts in her shoes very soon to take care of the imbalance and the pronation. The physical therapist thinks this may have happened as a result of the great tibia fracture of 2005. It was a key developmental time for growth, and what grows bones, you ask? Compression. And since she was favoring the leg (and in a cast for 2 months), compression didn’t happen, so the other leg got all the work and did all the growing. With the inserts, she should feel more confident in running and should fall less. Her next big growth spurt (around age 6/7) should take care of the problem. And, it’s not like she’ll live a less amazing life if it doesn’t. Do we really need to be graceful runners to have a full life?

I think I’ll sign her up for swim classes. :)

*The inserts issue deserves its own post, which I will write soon.

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  • Awww! Stubby people of the world UNITE! *wink* Well, you are full of fabulous, Cara, and Nadya MUST be, as she's following my friend's blog. L is in good company. Inserts are on the way. I will definitely try chiropractic, as it works for ME. Thanks for the suggestion, and thanks for reading.

    Cara, we're doing well. I'd love to hear more about how YOU are. We're moving to Boston. Again. This time, we're never leaving *knocks on wood* .
  • Nadya
    Hi there, I wandered over from Asthma Mom. This is my first time reading and I wanted to comment incase this would help. I also have one leg longer and so does one of our four kids. A GOOD chiropractor adjusted my lower back and my legs have even out over time. It took a few adjustments for it to hold. Same with our oldest daughter. But, I am a nurse and I researched and found a really good female chiropractor that was highly recommended. Just wanted to comment incase it could help your L. :)
  • Cara
    Hey Terry...I'm always reading even if I'm not always commenting!! Tell little miss Laurel that I too have a short leg, my right leg is longer than my left. My real problem is that my pelvis doesn't sit the way it's supposed to. So Laurel, have no fear, we lopsided folks will stick together and show the world that being symetrical isn't all it's cracked up to be!!!

    Hope you guys are doin well......
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